HowAboutWe is an online dating site that wants to encourage its members to spend more time offline, rather than online. They do offer a free membership that would allow you to get an idea of how to site operates but in order to message other members, you need to upgrade your membership status. Currently, there is a 6 month package and a 12 month package. It is paid in one lump sum rather than a monthly amount but the 1 month membership can be purchased if you wish to pay month to month.

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